However, I believe that nothing makes an evening more enjoyable than a long conversation with good company. Should also be someone that understands that soul mates don't exist and that relationship take work.
Ideally we must share some interest but a good match would be someone that not only brings out the best in me but also introduces me to new experiences. I'm self employed but not wealthy, just comfortable. See, I want the best of both worlds.
I'm a single white male living in Des Moines, 45 years of olcer but age doesn't matter as long as there is a genuine connection. A relationship that outside of the bedroom seems like an average relationship but when the relationship naturally progresses to a more intimacy BDSM is part of the activity. Her ideal person.